Friday, February 18, 2011

how do you know if your boyfriend is cheating on you?

The first sign that your boyfriend may be cheating, would be a sudden decrease in the time he spends with you .Also, if you notice that when you do spend time with him, he may seem to be distant, unhappy, bored etc... Also, if there is an increase in unexplained lost time. The second sign that your boyfriend may be cheating, would be an increase in arguments. If you and your boyfriend are suddenly arguing and fighting more often than usual. When the fights and arguments between the both of you are getting more heated, or severe, this is a good indicator of infidelity. The third sign that your boyfriend may be cheating on you, would be a noticeable lack of affection. If he holds you less, forgets to tell you he loves you, doesn't tell you that he thinks you're beautiful, doesn't call you by the cute pet names he has for you, etc...
The fourth sign your boyfriend may be cheating on you, would be a sudden lack of trust in you. If your boyfriend begins to question your behavior, and he starts hinting around at not having faith in you, there could be a problem. The trust issue actually originates from the guilt factor. Your boyfriend may accuse you of being unfaithful if he feels guilty about what he has done.
The fifth sign that your boyfriend may be cheating on you, would be the more obvious, suspicious behavior he may display as a cheating boyfriend. Suspicious behavior such as leaving the room for certain phone calls, ignoring certain phone calls while in your inescapable presence (riding in the car together), a constantly blank call history on his cell phone, a name of a person he never mentioned, and continues not to mention in his contact list on his cell phone (he could have her down as a he), he does not allow you to touch his cell phone for any reason, secretive text messaging etc...
The sixth sign that your boyfriend may be cheating on you, would be noticing his friends acting strange around you. Guys will lie for their friends when it comes to cheating, but that doesn't mean that they are comfortable lying for him, and it also does not mean that they are good at lying for him.
 
In a perfect world, boyfriends wouldn't cheat, but this is a far from perfect world. When it does happen, it hurts, but you do move on eventually. The best advice I can give to women who don't want their boyfriends to become unfaithful is, be the best you can be for him. Treat him with love and respect. Make sure he knows exactly how important he is to you. Be honest with him, be faithful to him, and let him know where you stand on what contstitutes cheating. Cheating can come in many forms. My idea of cheating is, doing anything you wouldn't do with your partner in the same room. I hope my advice can be most helpful.

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

How can you tell if a guy likes you.

If he likes you, you may see that he rarely turns his back to you, often leans towards you, and also looks at you a lot. If he slouches his shoulders when near you, he's romantic and cares about what you have to say.If he likes you, he may either look away quickly if he is shy, or he'll try to catch your eye and hold it or make faces. This can be uncomfortable if you don't like him. If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, and won't move his leg if it happens to touch yours, or he may hug you for small things - all are good signs of a guy liking you, unless he's a bit of a "playboy" who flirts with a lot of girls.Watch his actions around other girls and see if he treats you differently. Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do. For example, if you like a certain genre of music that he likes as well, he may suggest bands or artists for you to listen to. Another example, if you play sports he may ask to play against you just to show off that he's good at something you both like and then also have a reason to give you compliments as well. If he hits you or playfully punches you on your arm, this may mean he likes you. Acknowledge any compliments that come your way. If you do your hair or makeup differently one day, and the guy notices, that's a very good sign that he likes you..
If you think that a boy likes you, you can use this guideline to make sure...

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

How to choose a bestfriend

Friendships are based on honesty and trust, but how do you know who you can really trust? There is always that one special friend that you would trust your life with, or more importantly, your deepest, darkest secrets.
A best friend will stand by you no matter what decisions you make. A bestfriend will never judge you.
You know this is your best friend because he or she has never let you down, never told your secrets and has been that someone you could talk to without judgement or attitudes. The best friend knows more about you than anyone else in the world. You trust them, and they have the same trust in you.
 Your best friend accepts you for who you are, all your craziness, the drunken 'my life is over' phone call in the middle of the night and all the other nonsense you both put up with for each other.
You laugh together, cry together and spend the biggest days of your lives together, like the birth of your first grand child, or the wedding of your son. You are more than a friend. You are a best friend.
Your friendship is deep, such as that of a soul mate.
Your best friend helps you through grief, or camps out in your hospital room when you're sick. It's your best friend who will talk to you for hours when you're feeling alone. Your best friend loves you to the end, even on the days you are acting like the jerk you can be sometimes.
You are truly blessed if you have one Best Friend.

Friday, February 11, 2011

review on my classmate blogs

andray's blog: {GoodlifeDray}  it was intresting, he wrote about sports and other different topics that boys talk about. His blog is kind of intresting but he can also write about things that would attract teenagers.

shanice blog: {Things in life} it was very nice to see all the diffrent topics and styles. she had a lot of intrestiong blos that would keep viewers entertained. i can see that her theme for her blog is the things in life because she spoke about everything that happens in her life along with her surrounding.

Katherine blog;{ Lfy Xd} I loved her blog she kept me entertained and i love the topics that she wrote about. she wrote about everything that people face every day. she wrote about love and how to know that someone that is ment for you. I love how she can captivate her reader by the intresting things that she write. This is one of my favorite blog.

A-Dale blog; [ Dipoet blog} umm im not a huge fan of sports but this blog was good, it was bout the UFC and all the events that occur. It was about fighting championship. i didnt really find this blog intresting because i dont like wrestling but for other sports fanatic they will love this blog,.

Tiffany blog : { Live Laugh and Learn} I enjoyed tiffanys's blog because she wrote about everything ; from fashion to t.v shows. I like the blog that was about fighting it was good to see that she doesnt like violence as much as i dont. I love the pharse that she wrote " i will speak with word not my hands" thats a nice quote to live by.

Sarah blog: SimplyPut} i like her blog because she has similar topics that i have. She wrote about love, rumors, break-ups and other intresting topics. her blog is exciting to read.. Some of her blogs were kind of disturbing but for the most part her blogspot is okay.

Shayaa blog: { boredom} his blog is nice i find it very intresting. He has topics that could capture any male teenager..

Shanice Lynch : { life as an 18 year old} her blog is about everything that has been occuring in her life an and 18 year its intresting to hear what she has been doing with her life and things that she faces as an young adult

Chavonne blog; { Fashion Junkiee} i love her blog its mostly about fashion and i love that she keeps us updates d with the latestes fashion. she even has pivture to show us how it looks. her blog is very stylish and i love that..

Denzel blog: if you want to know whats going on in the world this is a perfect blog to visit. he writes about all the crime that is happening in the world today. i love that he cares about whats going on and he also wants to keep people inform which is a good thing.

Natural blog ; Nattie knows. her blog is very intresting she writes about everything that comes to her mind. she has different topics and i love the verstility..

Bibi blog ; Love that is ment to be} i love her blog.. i can relate to most of blog.. i love that we have similar topics that we both share with our blog. she mostly write about love and the diffrent topics that fall underneath it. i enjoy reading her blogs.

Tuesday blog:{ starstruck planet} her blof is very intresting she write about alot of diffrent things. i love the blog about star couple.. she kept me well informed

Dejon ; his blog is mostly about sports. he would keep any sports fanatic entertained and well informed.

Danielle blog: her blog is about things that happen to her while she is in school. her blog is called 5days its just about that. her blog is intresting.

Ruthie blog:  her blog is also similar to mines because she mostly write about relationships and the diffrent topics that has to do about relationship. i love her blog and i enjoy reading them.

Amber blog: { through the eys of amber} first off i love the name of her blog and i love that she writes about things that fasinate her and things that she think she should share with other people. i love the blog about fashion dont.

Andrea blog: her blog is mostly about teenage life in school and the different things we have to do in order to succeed. i find her very intresting.

Jessica blog: one og my favorite blogspot. i love the blog about friends that come and go... i also love that she included my blog in her website.. her blog is very heart touching.

Alexandria blog: her blog is about teenage life and the diffrent obstacle they face. I find her blog very intresting because most of the things that she wrote about are very inportant.

Madhu blog: Its about earth scince. its really nice to see that someone my age is fasicnated by earth's enviornment and the different structure of earth.

Amina blog: her blog is about fashion and the diffrent styles that we once popular. she also tells us where the style came from. her blog has alot of information that i didnt know.

Anthong blog: his blog was very intresting because she mostly wrote about the diffrent technology and where and how they were created.  his blog will intrest a lot of boys that love games..

Fatima blog: she also write about the life of a teenager in and out of school. I'm very happy that she found someone special for her and she is confident that he is the one. she gives other girls hope so that they can find the right one also

Friday, February 4, 2011

All about my blog..

Tashawna Dallas
Blog Adress: shawna2kute.blogspot.com
Blog Description: Tashey's Help Line is a blog where I help female with the struggles they face and anwer questions that they are not sure about. It also gives tips on how to have a healt reltionship and what to look for in your spouse. This blog gives guildlines to teenagers on topics and things that they are not sure about.
Sample Blog: A good boyfriend
A good boyfriend is everything to thier mate. What i mean by this is that he could be part of all aspects of your life. He is a friend that you can talk to about anything and everything. He knows when to give u your space to let you be you, and knows when to step in and talk to you when he feels like u are going in the wrong direction. He does not nag. He can compromise and come up with solution for the better of the relationship. He is your biggest fan and cheers you on to be the best person you can be and does not get intimidated by your brilliance. He knows that you need to make up your mind and make decisions for yourself and has trust in your choices. he knows that everything can not be her way....He pays attention to his mate and knows all the ways to drive her wild in bed. His main focus is to please his mate in all 5 planes of life.. A good boyfriend to hard to find, but when you do find him you should treat him the best you can .

Reason you should visit my blog: It help answer question your not sure of, shows you how to have a healty relationship, talks about everything that we as females are faced with everyday and it's very interesting and i garantee you will enjoy my blog :)

Thursday, February 3, 2011

How to recover from a break-up

Even if you are the one who initiated the breakup, the feeling of loss and separation can be distressing. There is a mental state called “separation anxiety”, which describes the feelings you may have now that your partner is no longer a part of your life, your thoughts, and your emotions. The important thing is to figure out the best way to get past this and get the breakup out of your system. These are some guidelines that will get you recover from a break-up:
  •  Allow yourself plenty of healing time. Different people heal at different rates so be patient with yourself. It’s okay to grieve and cry, just make sure you make an effort to not use this as an excuse for being a hermit many months later.
  • Exercise and improve your diet. Besides giving you a positive endorphin rush, joining a gym can put you into social circumstances. Through exercising and improving your diet, you’ll not only be taking care of your body and your health, you’ll improve your self-esteem as well.
  • Make an effort to meet new people. Join a club, take a class, volunteer, go the park, attend a concert. Allow these larger social groups to replace the connections you had with your lover for a while. Take action and just do it.
  • Surround yourself with as many family and friends as possible. If your relationship with your friends and family suffered because of the huge amount of time you spent with your sweetheart, now is the time to patch up old relationships.
  • Strengthen your spiritual side. Go to church, learn from a yogi, or pray. It’s amazing how these things can help re-center you
       These gulidelines can get you recover from any relationship..
       

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

My best blogs..

1. Topic : A good boyfriend.. 1|24|11
 This was one of my favorite blogs because it help girls determine whether or not they have a good boyfriend. It was shows girls that if a boy pressure you into something you dont want to do then he's is not for you. I like it because it tell female not to settle for anything less than they deserve.

2 .Topic: How tto be a good daughter 1|20|11
 This is another one of my favorite blogs because it teach daughters how to deal with their parents and it also tell us how to sope with their strick rules without being rude to them. it makes it clear that you dont have to run an extra mile just to win your parents love.

3. Topic: How to have a healty relationship 1|19|11
 this is a great gulidline for girls who want to have a heatly relationship.. I liked it because it show that we as female dont have to give into a boys want just to have a healty relationship. You have to be honest with yourself, and love yourself in order to love someone else. as teenagers we dont know the steps to a healty relationship and the Do's and the Dont's. I learned a lot from the blog and i know other females will too.

4. Topic: Why do some people stay in an abusive relationship? 1|14|11
  A lot of people often wonder why people stay in an abusive relationship.. this answers everyone question including mine.. It shows us the sign of an abusive relaionship and how to get out of it. i liked this blog because it shows teenagers like myself that if a guy is hitting us he doesnt have any respect for us and he doesnt love us. It give examples that are often used by guys to justify their behavior. this is a useful blog and everyone can learn a lot.

5. Topic: what is love??
 I love this blog because a lot of people dont know the definition of love and the diffrent type of love and this blog tell all the ablove. It taught me that love is eternal truth in the history of mankind and the diffrence between love and lust.