a good boyfriend..

A good boyfriend is everything to thier mate. What i mean by this is that he could be part of all aspects of your life. He is a friend that you can talk to about anything and everything. He knows when to give u your space to let you be you, and knows when to step in and talk to you when he feels like u are going in the wrong direction. He does not nag. He can compromise and come up with solution for the better of the relationship. He is your biggest fan and cheers you on to be the best person you can be and does not get intimidated by your brilliance. He knows that you need to make up your mind and make decisions for yourself and has trust in your choices. he knows that everything can not be her way....He pays attention to his mate and knows all the ways to drive her wild in bed. His main focus is to please his mate in all 5 planes of life.. A good boyfriend to hard to find, but when you do find him you should treat him the best you can .

How to be a good kisser

First things first! Make sure that your physical appearance is attractive. Otherwise, the other person will not even feel like kissing. Kissing means using lips. Make sure you lips are soft and supple and for that, start using lip balm on a daily basis. However, don’t use a balm or a gloss just before kissing; it will be a major turn-off.
Nobody wants to kiss garlic or onion or say, smoke. Do not kiss if you have just had smelly things for lunch or smoked cigarettes. At the same time, always keep mints with you, for that perfect fresh breath. In the initial seconds, go easy. Give the other person time to feel completely at ease. You don’t want to scare your partner.
Always try different types of kisses. French kiss is not the only kiss in the world. Don’t become so lost in the kiss, so as to completely forget the other person. Be attentive to his/her non-verbal responses.
Lastly, be confident. Getting nervous while kissing is sure to make the beautiful sensations end up in a mess. Just go with the flow.

How to be a good daughter

Being a daughter is difficult. Hormones, bullying, and peer pressure make it even harder, but these guildeline can help you to be a better daughter.Be yourself. You do not have to hurt yourself, dump your friends, or pretend to be something you're not just to gain the gratitude of your parents. Your parents love you for who you are. Make a memory box/notebook. Write down all the things that you get mad at or you don't like your parents to do. Read it aloud to them once a week so they know what is going on in your thoughts.
Always be thankful when you receive something from your parents. Don't talk back! You have to follow their decision without saying, "Oh, you're wrong!" or any other thing that will anger them.
Try to stay off sarcasm. This can be a grand annoyance, and sometimes makes people lose their patience.
Try to ease into this. They will think you want something if you change overnight.
Don't bend over backwards to win your parents' love. The world is full of people who will always wonder why their parents don't love them. Love yourself first, and don't let your parents abuse you or withhold love from you. Ever. Your parents may not be perfect but love them for who they are, and don't judge them either; they make mistakes too.

How to have a healty relationship..

Know yourself and be honest with yourself and love yourself -- first! Only then can you truly appreciate and love someone else. accept your spouse as he or she is physically and mentally. Your spouse may not be tall or have the sense of humor or have a lot of healthy habits ut may be good in many other things. Look at the positive side and be happy with him or her. Treat your partner the way you want to be treated. Be gentle and kind. Apologize if your partner feels hurt(but don't let them make you feel bad). Be the first to tell your partner, either positive or negative. Trust is as essential as respect. If you want your partner to trust you, trust him or her first. Letting your partner play guessing games may lead to misunderstanding and frustration. But, don't just tell him or her the issue, also talk about your plan to solve it. Communicate with your partner. Without communication, there is no relationship. Stay in touch by, for example, calling your partner even if it's just to say 'hi' and 'I love you', never criticize them for showing love and always make time for each other willingly..
Don't fool yourself or the other person. Know what you're capable of and be honest about your intentions. If you know that you are sex addict, own it but allow room for the other person to make decisions as to whether or not they want to be in a relationship with you under those conditions. Do not be deceitful. A white lie is still a lie. You can have a heatly realtionship with tese guidelines..

What is love?

To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.  Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true.Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all.  Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. And as God said  I Love all. It is a good feeling to know that your loved, but its also a better feeling to know that someone loves you :)

Tip on how to be a good girlfriend

As in any healthy relationship, you will have your share of conflicts, some tiny, some big. Remember to be true to yourself and try to abandon any significant selfishness. A relationship is a matter of teamwork and a symbiotic relationship, not a parasitic one, where a party gives and the other one just takes without giving enough back.If your boyfriend is acting weir  towards you, it doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't love you. It most likely means he is shy and has never been in a relationship before and just doesn't know how to act. To solve this problem you can talk to him about acting that way. Perhaps he's expecting you to take more initiative, because you have had more experience with relationships than he has.
Don't let your friends try to manage your relationship. It's your relationship and no one else's. You don't have to listen to every piece of advice from your friends if you don't want to.
Don't forget that he has a life of his own. Just because he didn't call you back for 10 minutes doesn't mean he's been cheating. You cannot be his one and only focus all the time.
Don't ever let him tell you how to live your life. Don't let him pressure you and be open about things. But don't tell him how to live his life either. The best way to a heathly relationship is honestly and trust.

Why do people stay in abusive relationship?

Partners in abusive relationships have varying reasons for remaining in them. The first reasons why someone may stay in an abusive relationship is practical, even if they are not always rational. Some abused people feel they cannot leave their relationships because they are economically dependent on them. For example,an abused stay-at-home mother may feel that she cannot leave her abusive relationship because if she did, she would have no way of providing for her children. Other abused people stay because they believe that is the proper thing to do, given their religious or cultural background. Some practicing Catholic people believe that divorce is a bad thing to be avoided at most all costs.
 The second reson why some perople stay in an abusive relationship is uncovered by learning about the so-called "cycle of abuse." This is where all the emotion bottles and then the person release it by hitting on their partener. There is no clear beginning to the cycle of abuse, but for purposes of describing it, we can start at an arbitrary stage along its progression. Something event occurs, whether real or only imagined by the abuser, that generates feelings of anger or even rage. These feelings then lead to the second stage of the cycle, which is where the actual abusive behavior occurs. Such behavior may be verbal, physical, emotional/mental, or sexual in nature. If the cycle stopped here and stayed constant, most victims would find it very easy to leave and not endure abuse for long periods of time. However, shortly after the abusive event occurs, the abuser frequently expresses remorse or guilt and wants to apologize. The abuser will swear, "It will never happen again" and may shower the victim with gifts and demands that the victim forgive him or her.
 It is up to you to stay strong and get out of that abusive relationship. If your partner love you they wouldnt hurt you or even attempt to hurt you.

Who is a true friend

 The very first sign of a very good friend, not necessarily a true friend is that we are not worried about courtesies. You will call your friend at any hour and talk without any thought of time in your mind. Similarly, whenever you need support, you will call a very good friend and ask him/her to help you out. They expect the same from you. Another important trait of such relations is that we are not much worried about exposing ourselves. We speak about everything in our mind without worrying about what our friends will think. We are sure that they will take our talk in the spirit it was made. We are unguarded and open with friends in our talk.
A true friend is a little more than a very good friend. A true friend will support you even if it hurts his/her own interest. A true friend will understand your motives and needs and will be with you without any analysis or criticism. A true friend will come forward to help without any request and be with us in need without showing it or expecting anything in return. With a true friend, you can be sure that you will get help to the extent possible by him/her. Nothing will remain unturned. A mother is a true friend of her children. If we share such relations with an adult we can say that we are true friends.
  A true friend makes no excuses of having work or appointments or anything but will be with you whenever you need him/her. In your hour of desperation, a true friend will support you even if the whole world opposes you. A true friend is not an opportunist. A true friend means to have someone who is like mother, as I said earlier. Instead of having hundreds of good friends, if you have a true friend, treat yourself lucky. If you can also become a true friend of someone, you will be blessed, because it is much easier for all of us to expect but very difficult to give. Be a true friend yourself first.

The reson why some people cheat on their partner

 Spouses cheat because of problems in their relationship - something is missing, passion has faded, partners feel lonely, people find someone who treats them better or who appreciates them more than their current spouse, and so on.Some people love the thrill of sneaking around behind someone's back and doing something without their knowledge. Some people try hard to get caught, and others try to make it last as long as possible. another reason is that They feel like their siginificant other does something wrong to them and then cheat to get revenge on the other person.Cheating situations are never the same, really. Sometimes it ends up with the ultimate happiness of the cheater if they leave their s/o for someone else. Other times it's a drunken mistake that will never be repeated. Usually it's somewhere in between. I was talking to a friend of mine and this is her prospective on cheating ;

 Cheating has nothing to do with your spouse in most cases...it has everything to do with what is lacking inside youself.
It's often about feeling inadequate unless you are getting 'outside' signals that you are OK, sexy, attractive, fascinating, interesting etc. which makes you vulnerable to flattery.....
Sometimes it is about you not having a strong sense of personal integrity, good value system basic honesty.
Sometimes it is like 'notches in your gun'....what image you want to project to your inner circle (excluding your spouse) Sometimes it is due to a sexual addiction.
In my experience, there is absolutely no dissatisfaction with a spouse a home, therefore no motivation to leave.

In my opnion if someone is not pleased with their partner they should leave, instead of playing that person that would be the smart thing to do.

Cheating has nothing to do with your spouse in most cases...it has everything to do with what is lacking inside youself.
It's often about feeling inadequate unless you are getting 'outside' signals that you are OK, sexy, attractive, fascinating, interesting etc. which makes you vulnerable to flattery.....
Sometimes it is about you not having a strong sense of personal integrity, good value system basic honesty.
Sometimes it is like 'notches in your gun'....what image you want to project to your inner circle (excluding your spouse)
Sometimes it is due to a sexual addiction.
In my experience, there is absolutely no dissatisfaction with a spouse a home, therefore no motivation to leave.

Rumors

High School is all about rumors and gossip. There is a rumor going around in Van about some innocent girls being "pops". People are so arrogrant and have no life so they make up things about people. One of my friend is on the list and i feel so bad for her because everyone is looking and talking about her. High school has a lot of immature poeple and ignorant peopel. Some of the girls were crying when they found out they were on the list. I hope the person that did this get caught and dealt with for putting these inncoent girls through hell.

Fashion in 1961 and 2011

  In the first years of the 1960s, women always dressed in prissy, conservative, and lady-like outfits: Heels, gloves, and possibly hats, completed their ensembles. The traditional pensil-skirt and swing-skirt silhousette of the 1950s were continuing their rampage to dominate fashion into the early 1960s. And, it's true that females never wore trousers or capris outside of their houses unless they were gardening or taking a walk along the beach. The way they dressed in the 1960s is totally different from our current word (2011)
 In 2011 its a more classy dressing. Women mostly wear boots, shoes, heels, dressy shirts and a nice fitted jeans. For the winter everyone wears uggs and polo boots. Polo Ralph Lauren Corporation is a leader in the design world today. It is a new trend that has everyone wearing polo shirts, polo boots, polo hats basically polo everything. The trend in 2011 is a more layed back trend its a lot different than what they use to wear in the 1960s.