Best Hotel in Jamaica- Catcha Falling Star

  If your ever in the Island of Jamica make sure you visit Catcha Falling Star Hotel in Negril. When my family and I went to this hotel we fell inlove with this place, we didn't even want to leave. We stayed in Sagittarius. It had a beautiful view with several decks. There were sunning areas, a hammock, 2 tables and chairs. We sat out there in the evenings listening to the music from Rick's. The room itself was a very large cottage. It had wooden floors and high ceilings. There was a queen size bed, microwave, refrigerator, table, TV, Cd player, and an amoire. The bathroom was a good size with a huge walk in shower. If you opened the shutters from the shower you had an ocean view. The wonderful housekeepers served us a very nice breakfast on our patio. We could also use the kitchen if we needed to. The property was very beautiful, it was just quite and beautiful. I enjoyed sitting on the large comfy loungers right at the edge of the ocean. When we got hot we could jump in the swimming cove or use the outdoor shower.
 The staff were all very friendly and provided great service. The food was very enjoyable. we ate fry fish, bbq chicken, ackee and saltfish, oxtail, pancake, eggs, and ect. I would recommend this hotel to ANYONE, I garanttee that you will be pleased and it will be worth your money.

The doors review

The Doors is one of the Best jamican resturant. Finger licking good. I have dined at The Door several times and have always been satisfied- whether, the Sunday or Thursday Buffet; a sit down dinner for two, or a group; or a Takeout, the food is just good. I have had chicken of various flavors and styles - Jerk, curry, stew; fish, well, I am very favorably  to the 'barbecue chicken" but its all nice. There is something for everyone. Service is also exceptional. Well trained and professional staff. And the price is just right. Once you try The Door, you can't help going back. Anyone that's jamican will know sey it ah di feel yawrd food lol. I would recomend this resturant to ANYONE, once you eat there you can't stop going back for more and this is not only for jamaicans because they do have american food.
  For anyone who wants to visit this resturant the adress is:

16307 Baisley Blvd, #Jamaica, New York, NY 11434

Contact: (718) 525-1083

The Doors Resturant

Freaky Friday the 13th

May 13, 2011 is the only Friday the 13th of the whole year! And believe it or not, the superstitious may feel even more out of luck on this Friday the 13th in particular. Why? In the science of Numerology, the exact date of May 13, 2011 reduces to ... you guessed it: the number 13.
The number 13 has been considered unlucky since medieval times, most likely because of its association with the number of people at the Last Supper. Friday, too, is seen as unlucky because that was the day of the crucifixion( death). The only people who are strongly affected by this superstitious date are those who suffer from a fear of Friday the 13th and believe that something bad is going to happen tot them.
 I personally don't believe that anything bad is going to happen on friday the 13th. nothing has happened to me so far so why should i believe that it's going to happen now. I don't think people should believe in things like this.
 but to be sure you  may  want to learn what personal influences are at play during Friday the 13th or any other day. Take advantage of the knowledge that is out there and use it to your benefit and dont believe everything that you hear find out proper information.

How to know if your really in love

 There is no easy way to find the truth behind your feelings or the feelings of another person but there are some signs that your falling in love with your partner. If you agree with most of these sign then your probably in love!

1. You know, because you have been told by your significant other, that your deep feelings are returned in kind.
2. If you feel jealous ; you trust your partner not to betray you or hurt your relationship.
3. Nothing makes you feel more happy as when you and your partner are together.
4. When you fight with your partner you usually make up within a few hours and you always find a way to resolve your conflict even if your wrong.
5. Your partner never ask you to choose between him or your friends. He respect every decision that you make and is willing to meet you half way.
6. You are more yourself when with your partner than you are with anybody else.
7. when you are without your partner you think about him 24/7 and you want to be around him all the time and want to constantly talk to him on the phone.

How to know if a relationship is over...

It’s hard knowing when to get out. Maybe your partner is putting crazy demands on the relationship and you’re having trouble deciding to leave. Or maybe you think your partner wants out, but is stringing you along for some unknown reason. These are some sign that the relationship may be over or something is wrong.
  Mutual respect is the foundation of any relationship.  If you aren’t being respected, then the relationship has to change. You probably need to end the relationship altogether, because something that basic isn’t likely to change. 
There are other ways to disrespect a person without abuse or cheating. If your partner makes promises and doesn’t keep them, there’s something wrong with the relationship. If the person is constantly late to pick you up or come in from a night out on the town, this person is exhibiting hostility to you and your relationship. You need to talk to your partner about changing this behavior, or you need to get out.
  If your partner is abusive to you, that is the ultimate sign of disrespect. There are other sides, too. If you’re being lied to or cheated on, then you aren’t being respected. You can try to repair the relationship by talking things over with a liar or cheating. But don’t fool youself.
The relationship is over.
  Before you do anything, think things over and ask youself:
 Where the relationship is headed. Does your partner wear you out? Is being in the relationship putting stress on you or seem like it’s unhealthy?

How soon can you say "I Love You"

  After five months, you should be safe saying I love you ( if you truly mean it) without too much fear of the dreaded "I know." If he is not ready at this point, he may never be. And that is something that you need to be prepared for too. you should share everything. If he’s the right person for you, it’s not going to scare him off.. if it does, maybe he’s not the right one for you.. better to find that out sooner than later if he's really into or if there is a future for the both of you. If its in your heart, why wouldnt you say it? Withholding it if you feel it doesnt do anybody any good, does it? you may not like the response, but you will be true with your feelings. Sometimes you may feel like you really love it but its not love it's lust, there is a big difference so you must first differentiate which one it truly is.
  The differnce between love and lust is that lust is an emotion you feel for a short time that can change. When your happy or satsified with someone you may think you love them but sometimes it's lust. True love comes from the heart and it is very difficult to change, love is self-sacrificing and unchanging.
  If you genuinely love someone and know for sure that it's real love you should tell that person before it's too late. You may never know how that person truly feels about you if you don't say anything.

All About Peer Pressure

 As you grow older, you'll be faced with some challenging decisions, but it's up to you to make the right decision. Peers influence your life, even if you don't realize it, just by spending time with you. You learn from them, and they learn from you. It's only human nature to listen to and learn from other people in you age group.Sometimes peers influence each other in negative ways. For example, a few kids in school might try to get you to cut class with them, your soccer friend might try to convince you to be mean to another player and never pass her the ball, or a kid in the neighborhood might want you to shoplift with him.
Some kids give in to peer pressure because they want to be liked, to fit in, or because they worry that other kids might make fun of them if they don't go along with the group. Others go along because they are curious to try something new that others are doing. The idea that "everyone's doing it" can influence some kids to leave their better judgment, or their common sense, behind.
  It is tough to be the only one who says "no" to peer pressure, but you can do it. Paying attention to your own feelings and beliefs about what is right and wrong can help you know the right thing to do. Inner strength and self-confidence can help you stand firm, walk away, and resist doing something when you know better.
if you want to know if your making the right decision consult a close friend and ask them for an opinion.
 

 

Obama's no-win decision on bin Laden photos

In my opinion I think that pictures of Osama Bin Laden should be released to the press because we all want eveidence that he is really dead and the pictures will justify that. President Obama faced a decision yesterday and decided to release the pictures of Osama Bin Laden because doing so might provoke public opinion in Muslim-majority countries and actually feed support for al Qaeda's agenda. I know that President Obama is trying to do the right thing and start any chaos with the Muslamic community but It give the people in the U.S a better closer knowing that he is truly dead. Presiden Obama  may be forced to release the photos, because the photos may eventually be leaked anyway. And, of course, visual proof of Bin Laden's death would serve as a powerful endpoint in this chapter of American history. However there is a debate on both sides about releasing the pictures some peoeple are not sure if the pictures should be released to the press. Even if the photos are relaesed some people will ssay that they are fake and Bin Laden is still alive so it doen't matter,
 President Obama should do what he think is best for the public and ingore what everyone is saying and di the right thing. He cannot satify everyone. Officals said that the costs of releasing the photos outweighed the benefits because doing so would have cause unacceptable national security risks to the U.S. Ultimately, the president's job is to keep Americans safe, and right now, this necessitates that the photos be kept under wraps. In the end, Obama made the right decision given short-term national security priorities. But we should not be surprised to see his decision come under increasing pressure in the next few months with everyone around him telling him what to do and with the pressure of the public.

U.S investigates whether Paskistan helped Bin Laden

  U.S officals are investigating whether or not Paskistan military knew where Osama Bin Laden was hiding.
The official, John O. Brennan, said Tuesday on National Public Rado that “it would be premature to rule out the possibility.” He added that “we’re not accusing anybody at this point, but we want to make sure we get to the bottom of this.” lawmakers in Washington expressed anger and doubt that the world’s most wanted terrorist could be living so close to the Pakistani capital and a Pakistani military training facility without the government’s knowledge. This is a bit suspicious because he has been living so close to Paskistani capital and no one had any idea he was staying there? Someone had to know that he was hiding there with his family but they were probably covering up for him. Paskistan governement said they had no idea that he was hiding there and they have nothing to do with Osama Bin Laden. U.S officals said they want to investigate more for themselve instead of listening to the Paskian govenment. It is very hard to belief that the most wanted terriorist  did not have a support network inside of Pakistan to help him hide-out for all these years.I hope that the U.S forces find out the truth and put closer to this situation.

Bin Laden is Dead

 President Barack Obama and others have said that a person killed in a raid on a compound in Pakistan was identified as Osama bin Laden.  The town where Osama bin Laden was killed by U.S. forces is located a bit more than 1,000 yards from a Pakistan Military Academy, and everyone is a bit suspicous and is wondering if the Pakistan military knew where he was hiding all along. Officals said'' Bin Laden was not killed until the last five to ten minutes of the firefight." Bin Laden's own wife identifed his body to the U.S forces, after the teamtook a look for theirselves. Today at 12:22am Osama bin Laden's body was buried at sea according to Islamic law because no country was willing or able to take his body for burial on land. President Obama is very happy that justice is served and it quoted " we can all agree that today is good day for America"
  I am a bit nervous to see the outcome of this situation, bacuse i thiink the people in Paskistan is going to retaliate and try to get back at America. I am very scared and I know what i have to be careful and be aware of whatever os going to come. I am happy that justice was served, but I'm also uneased.

Tashey's blog self-evaluation

1.) Explain why or why not you were satisfied with our latest newsletter project. I am very satisfied with my newsletter project because I spend  a lot of time to think about my layout and how I wanted it to look. I did everything that I was required to do and I made sure it looked upn to part, so I am satsified with my work

2.) Explain how you have developed as a writer and a your biggest blogger. I have made a lot of inprovement as a writier and a blogger. I can now expand on my writing and I have a lot more intresting topics that my viewers would like to read about. At first I never enjoyed blooging, but now I find myself content and anxious to wrote a blog. There is still room for improving but I have become a better blogger.

 3.) Explain the weaknesses you still feel you need to overcome. What do you need to improve? My weakness is that somethimes I dont know what to write about so my write about the same topics that i already have. I need to expand my thinking a bit more so that i can find things to write about that will entertain my readers.

4.) What do your blogs demonstrate about you as a learner? A writer? A student? My blog demonstrate that I like to help other female with promblems that they face as a teenagers. I love to reseach and find out about other people tips on different topics and put some of their advice in my blog. As a student my blog that I am very verstitile and I write very well.

5.) Describe each page you wrote and explain the thought process you went through in designing each page. Refer back to the project if necessary. BE SPECIFIC! On the first page I put topics that has to do with Love and Relationship. I did that because my blog is mostly about relationship advice so i thought that it would be smart to put that in the first page so evryone has an idea of what my newsletter is about.

• On the sencond page is about friendsip and my blog has a lot of things on friendship so i thought that it was the appropriate setting and space.
• My third page is about other things that can we as teens may need to know and some unanwered questions that we have want to be answered I put this on the third page because I found it best that a topic like this belonged there.
• My last page is dedicated to News. I put it on the last page because i wanted to include the news in my newsletter but its not something that I really write about in my blog so thats why i put it on the last page.

How to forgive the peron you thought was your bestfried

Forgiving someone who has hurt you, expecially when they are suppose to be your bestfriend is very hard to do but hopefully these guidelines can help you recendle you friendship.

•  Consider all the wonderful times that you and your best friend shared. If you are able to remember all of these moments, then surely the friendship had a depth of importance. Nevertheless, the reason for the dispute was probably nothing more than a misunderstanding
• Think about the last conversation that you and your best friend shared. If you were the one that took the comment in the wrong way, then realize that your friend was not trying to offend you. If you were the one that said the comment that you did not believe was offensive, then try to understand that your friend had the ability to perceive it as such.
• Forgive. Holding on to petty arguments is never the correct way to leave a once decent friendship. Forgiveness can of course be difficult, but it is the more mature thing to do. The friend that took the comment in the wrong way needs to forgive the other friend for not telling him or her how they felt. The friend that made the comment needs to forgive the other friend for not being able to state why they felt the way that they felt about the comment

   Although it may be difficult emotionally, forgiving is the right decision. It will make you feel better in the end. Sometimes forgiveness can take take, but never give up hope.

2011 spring fashion

Stripes

Stripes are a dominant part of any spring / summer season, though usually, year on year, featuring a variation on the theme. Spring 2011 sees stripes with an unsurprising nautical dominance - but it's a dominance inspired by other key Spring 2011 fashion trends.

 

Lace clothing

No, it's not new. But, like all trends that span multiple seasons, it has evolved. Lace influences for Spring 2011 are more to the classic side with quality antique-style fabrics the key to the trend. Less of the allover, stretch lace and more of the unique takes.

Capri pants

For every trend exists its opposite. So as spring / summer 2011's fashion trends allow us to welcome flares back into our wardrobes, so too does it allow for an opposite style, in the form of capri pants, to make a showing.

How to get a girl to be your girlfriend

1.    Make sure she likes you. If she's sending you mixed signals, try spending a little more time with her until you feel confident about how she feels. Keep in mind that you'll have to be 100% sure; the point being made here is to not ask too early. If you're only just beginning to get to know her and you immediately ask her to be your girlfriend, she will say no because she doesn't know you well enough, and the resulting happiness might decrease your chances of being together. Furthermore, she will probably think you're a bit strange (in a, not so great way). One of the worst ways is to get to the "implied girlfriend" status. This is where you go out maybe once or twice, or take several times at least, the laugh, carry on, have a good time. Then, one day you sort of look at each other and ask "Hey, are we going out?". Invariably, the answer will be No. Most times, it is just worse not to ask, and to just let it happen.
2.    Plan better if you get uncomfortable and sometimes don't know what to do or say. Think of what you're going to say in response. Rehearse what you will say when you attempt to ask her out. If you plan on showing any affection, stick to hugs or holding hands early on. Don't come across as overly dramatic or too sensitive.
3.   Freshen your breath. Carry some mints in your pocket and take 1 or 2 BEFORE you talk to her. Don't say "hang on" and pop a mint in your mouth mid-conversation. She won't appreciate that. Your heart will probably be banging in your chest. This is normal. Relax. You'll be looking for the perfect moment, and it just might come. At some point you're just going to have to ask her out.
4.   Find a way to be alone with her. The closer in age you are, the easier this is going to be, but even if you have a little bit of privacy, when walking home from school or while dancing, it's better than asking her in front of all of your (or her) friends.
5.   Give her a compliment. "You look nice" is a short, simple statement showing that you appreciate the time she put in to her appearance. It is also a good conversational segue after hello. Be sure to smile and make eye contact. Don't overdo the compliments. That will make her you are kind of creepy and just plain like you less. And try not to make it too obvious that you like her.  Goodluck!!

Holmwood high school Tragedy in Jamaica

Three of the school's students and an adult who were passengers on a Toyota Hiace minibus travelling from Trelawny to Christiana, Manchester, lost their lives when the bus got out of control in Bryce district, two miles to the north of Christiana, and overturned.
The bus, which also had 15 other Holmwood students on board, slammed into a wall, ripping its roof off before coming to a halt. The owner, Anthony Brown, who was also the conductor, later died at the Percy Junor Hospital in Spaldings, while the three students died on the spot. The driver of the bus, who has only been identified as Buck, could not be located by the police up to press time.
all from Trelawny
The dead students have been identified as Venecia Buckle, a sixth-form student; Lyonsia Whyte, a grade-nine student, and Patrine Clarke, all of Trelawny addresses.
According to police, 21 people were travelling on the ill-fated bus.
At least three students were said to be in critical condition while two were airlifted to the Kingston Public Hospital yesterday.
When The Gleaner visited the school, the vibrant atmosphere that usually permeates the campus was replaced with sombre faces and teary eyes. The overcast day reflected the general feeling expressed by students and staff. Principal Paul Bailey, obviously shaken by the incident, said "it is a sad day in the life of the school".
Bailey said he was grateful for the support other schools in the area were showing. Those schools provided their counsellors to conduct grief-counselling sessions with the students and staff.
While the police had not yet determined the cause of the accident, an officer on the scene said he suspected speeding and a defective tyre were major contributors to the crash.
Yesterday, both the Ministry of Education and Opposition Leader Portia Simpson Miller offered their condolences for the loss of life.
Later, Ryan Small, president of the National Youth Council, said while his organisation was overcome with grief for the Holmwood teens, it noted that many youths perish each year in vehicular collisions on the nation's roads.
"We make an appeal to our young people not to be comfortable with speeding and reckless driving by bus and taxi operators. Take a stand against recklessness," Small demanded.

Poisonous snake found that was missing from the brnx zoo

The serpent is alive and under observation and will be on view to the public again if the planned checkup finds it in good condition, according to zoo officials cited by the online edition of the New York Daily News.

The search team caught the hooded snake Thursday with some special tongs and hooks inside the Reptile House at the zoo, which the cobra had never left.

Zoo workers brought the Egyptian cobra out of hiding with a scattering of wood shavings that rats and mice use for nesting around the building, according to the CNN online edition, so that it would smell like mealtime to the serpent and lure it into the open.

The Reptile House has been closed since last Friday, when authorities noticed that the 50-centimeter (20-inch) cobra was missing, a dangerous situation since its fangs inject venom that will kill a person in less than 15 minutes.

Zoo authorities have now been proved right who said earlier that the snake would undoubtedly seek somewhere to hide, since such reptiles are averse to open spaces.

How do you know if a relationship is worht fighting for...

Sometimes when a relationship has gone sour, our efforts are used trying to repair it, or "get it back", while the best thing to do might be to look at things in a different perspective. Is the relationship worth fighting for or is it truly a lost cause. There are a few things you can think about while trying to sort things through.
 Is your partner still in love or still interested in pursuing the relationship. Sometimes when we lose a love we tend to dwell on what used to be, not on what the relationship is currently about. Of course it was good in the beginning, otherwise you wouldn’t have ended up together. If both of you are willing to work on your problems you have a good shot at working things out. If not, you need to ask yourself "Are you in love with the memory of the way things used to be, or are you truly happy at this moment".Staying in a relationship for reasons other than love isn’t good for anyone. Some people, knowingly or unknowingly, stay in a relationship for the wrong reasons, such as having a roof over their heads, their bills are paid, they are afraid of being alone or a variety of other reasons.
Are you willing to stay in a hurtful or abusive relationship until your partner breaks things off? Some people are so afraid of losing someone they will stay as long as possible no matter what the situation, or they simply are not strong enough to break up themselves.

Just remember a couple of things. You deserve to be happy, no one person has the power to make or take your happiness. Only you control your happiness. If you need support seek out friends, family members or a professional. There are also plenty of self-help guides out there to guide you along the way, which ever path you choose.

Teen Mon star arrested in North Carolina

OAK ISLAND, N.C. – A North Carolina teenager who stars on MTV's reality show "Teen Mom 2" has been charged with assault after a fight recorded on video.
Brunswick County authorities say teen mom Jenelle Evans of Oak Island and two other teenage girls are charged with fighting. The 19-year-old Evans and 18-year-old Brittany Maggard also are charged with simple assault.
Authorities started investigating Friday after receiving calls about a video posted online that showed the teens fighting March 21. In the video, Evans appears to be hitting another young woman while bystanders encourage the fight.
Evans, Maggard and 19-year-old Brittany Truett have posted bond and are scheduled for trial April 26. It was not clear if they had attorney

The Most Impostanf Reason Why You Shoulsd Forgive

Forgiveness appears as though it is an easy thing to do, but it isn’t. Forgiving someone who you believe has wronged you is a very difficult thing to do. Some people live their entire lives unwilling and unable to forgive someone else and carrying this burdens on their shoulder all though their lives. Self help and personal growth can be of great support and help to you.The only person being hurt by your inability to forgive is YOU. In fact, often, the other person doesn’t even realize you have these bad feelings towards them. They may have even forgotten about the incident that lives fresh in your mind every day.
Holding negative feelings against someone and never forgiving them causes you to become negative. This single event leads to a shift in your way of thinking. You might become pessimistic and feel like everyone else is out to get you. You might build a wall so nobody else can get close enough to hurt you again. You should always forgive your neighbour because it is the bes thing to do.The most important reason you should forgive is to allow the healing process to begin. When you are finally able to release what happened in the past and make amends with that person within yourself, you will be able to finally move forward in your own life. You’ll feel as though a huge weight and burden has been lifted from your shoulders.

Some foods from four Japanese prefectures can't enter U.S.

All milk,milk products, fresh vegetables and fruit from one of four prefectures closest to the quake-stricken Fukushima Daiichi nuclear power plant will be banned from entering the United States.Food products from other parts of Japan will be tested as resources allow, but the FDA's main focus is food from these four areas, the spokesperson said.The Fukushima Daiichi neclear power plant suffered damage from the eathquake that recently happened in Japan on March 11. Some of the food have already been offically been taken off the market while others are being tested.The FDA will continue to stop all entries from Japan in order to determine where the affected area is coming from. This is a very hard tine for all Japan's residents because they dont know where to turn for food and they food that they have is not healthy. It is also going to affect the United States because they wont be able to trade with Japan until the government fix the problem. Other coutries won't be able to import food to Japan so the survivors that are there will have to find a way to get food. I hope that the problem will be fixed as soon as possible so that everyone will be able to get a meal. I'm just happy that the FDA tested the products before it entered the U.S because it could have positon someone. I will continue to pray for Japan.

Disaster is heavy burden to bear for Japan's elderly

March 17, 2011 11:00 a.m.

A 70 year old woman was carried away by the tsunami, but managed to survive the disater. Another 83 year old woman escaped the tsunami by jumping on her bicycle and riding to safe ground. These elderly survivors are very grateful that they can still be able to see another day, even if they are not reunited with their family. Many older people have found it hard to cope because they don't have the strerngth to manage on their own, or have the speed to move around. Japan had good preparedness plans that include the elderly but sadly thats still not enough.older people are more exposed to environmental changes, such as changes in temperature and lack of food or water, but only for a short time.For younger people, to live in a shelter for three to four weeks might not be a big deal, but for an older person it's completely different," Harper said. It is very overwelming to see what these eldery people are going through. im just hoping that things gat better and they get the help that they deserve. i think that their should be mor rescue teams out there that are looking for all the elderly that are stuck in their homes and ineed of help. i will continueously pray for them.

Smoke spews from 2 reactors at stricken Japanese nuclear plant

 onarch 21 at approximatle 11:52 smoke Smoke spewed from two adjacent reactors in the Fukushima Daiichi nuclear power plant.  a nuclear safety official said, "setbacks that came despite fervent efforts to prevent the further release of radioactive materials at the stricken facility." Workers were asked to evauate the premisies after grey smoke began to rise from the wreckage of its steel- and- concrete. Nishiyama said  "thmoke was coming from the building's southeastern side, where the reactor's spent nuclear fuel pool is located, but the origin of the smoke at either reactor was unknown. The plants has been seriously damaged by the flood water and it is filled with debris. this crisis has still not been solved and the situation at the Fukushima Daiichi nuclear power plant remains very serious.
The disaster has killed more than 8,600 people and left more than 13,000 missing, many of them killed as a wall of water rushed in following the quake. Ever since, authorities have been working to perventurther crisis -- and prevent more deaths -- at the Fukushima Daiichi plant, some 240 kilometers (150 miles) north of Tokyo. Officals are trying their best to see what they can do to help cease this problem.

how to be a good friend

• Always listen to your friends.
• Try new things.
• Be cool. Be yourself.
• Always be honest. Never, ever, lie to a friend. It just hurts your relationship.
• Try to tell as many secrets to her as you can so she will know you trust her, that way she'll learn to trust you. Don't overdo it though.
• On her birthday, do something that she likes, like doing something fun at night!
• Let her hang out with other people, try new things. If you don't, she will be very upset with you and probably think you're clingy.
• Don't talk about her behind her back. If she hears about it, and she probably will, she will feel like she's been stabbed in the back.
• Try to have a good time with her.
• Do things that you both like to do.
• Believe your friend. Always assume good faith.
• Give them a hug when they need it.
• Always be there for them through thick and thin.

DONT

• Don't be clingy and don't be crazy.
• Don't say anything bad about her so that she won't feel bad or else, she won't consider you a friend.
• Don't say bad things about her other friends as she might think you say things bad about her behind her back too.
• Try not to leave other friends out or you might lose them because you are spending all your time with her.
• Appreciate them even for the smaller things they do as well as for their achievements.
• Never tell about other girls look nice compare to you.
• Never ever steal from her or when both of you meet again she won't talk to you and be your friend.

Bullying

Bullying is a form of abuse. It comprises repeated acts over time that involves a real or perceived imbalance of power with the more powerful individual or group abusing those who are less powerful. The power imbalance may be social power and/or physical power. ...
Being bullied can effect someone because they will start to feel insecure and they feel like they have no power. They can no longer defend theirself and it can damage their life.
Children who bully are more likely to engage in other criminal and anti-social behaviors, such as:

• Fighting
• Vandalism
• Truancy
• Dropping out of school
• Stealing
• Smoking
• Alcohol/and or drug abuse

Obama and Mitchelle did a conference on bullying and Mitchelle Obama wants to stop bullying. She said thay everyone should treat eachother with the respect that they deserve. I agree with that they are saying because they want the students to feel safe and not be threathend to come to school. There should be a penatl for kids who bully, they shoulod respect other people and their belonging.  Bullying is a serious thing because and it can tramatize victimes. the mai reason why Obama wants to speak out is becasue he was bullied when he was younger and he doenst want anyone going throught what he had to expenice. Parents alos play a major role in bullying, they need to teach their children how to interact with other kids. I hope that our president and his first lady can put a stop to these abusive act.

So im going to jamaica on friday and i can't wait to go. I will see my family and friends for the first time in a while. I will try to enjoy the little time i have left and when i come back i hope that my teachers will be a little easy on me and not give me a lot of make up work.. Well i will talk back to you when i come back..

Pete King's hearing on radical Islam

It is clear that the people do not want Pete King to have his hearing on radical Islam. They feel that the "government has no business interfering with any religious group because a handful of adherents have broken the law". King is causing more damage on Muslim peope because feel that he is a threat to them. He is making the assumption that if your a muslim then your a terrorist, which is very wrong. he is not in any positon to tell any if their are terrorist or not. The muslim group have a very strong point about the american people being more of a threat and damaging their own country. King should not persecute anyone because of their religion, it is a free country and people should be able to practice their religion without being badgered. Pete King can be illustrated as inogrant and racist toward the Muslim people. He needs to worry about his own people and stop belittling nations.

My opinion on why Monogamy Matters

In my opinion I think this article is true because I have noticed that a lot of my peers are more anixious to have sex and they want to have more that one boyfriend/girlfriend. The writer stated that" the happiest women were those with a current sexual partner and only one or two partners in their lifetime." I agree with this quote because it is not good to sleep with a lot of people exspecially at a young age. Sometimes people make mistake and fall into the pressure of having sex, but i think its best to wait until you find your spouse to have sex. If you find someone that makes you happy and you want to spend the rest of your life with that persos then their is no need to find pressure in someone else. In today's society it is very hard to find someone who had one or two partners in their lifetime. I think people need more than one partner to gain experience and knowelge on how to look for their soulmate. Our generation today is way diffrent from who it use to be. The husbands wouldnt marry their wives unless they are virgins, but now no one cares about being a virgin. This article has a lot of good points but it doesnt match with our society.

$20 Loan, a Facebook Quarrel and a Fatal Stabbing

The dispute between two friends began over $20, money that had been given to buy baby formula and diapers, but that went for some other purpose. Days later, it became a heated public matter, splayed on the two young women’s facebook pages. At 5:44 p.m. on Sunday, one of them, Kamisha Richards, 22, wrote that this would be “the last time u will con me into giving u money.” Ten minutes later, the other, Kayla Henriques, 18, replied, “Dnt try to expose me mama but I’m not tha type to thug it ova facebook see u wen u get frm wrk.” The war of words escalated over Facebook. In capital letters, at 8:52 p.m., Ms. Richards said that she would have the last laugh. Ms. Henriques replied within seconds: “We will see.”
They exchanged more messages, until about 9:30 p.m. on Sunday. About 24 hours after their last Facebook exchange, Ms. Richards was dead, killed by a kitchen knife to the chest delivered inside an apartment in East New York, Brooklyn — according to the police, the home of Ms. Henriques, Ms. Richards and relatives of both women, including Ms. Henriques’s brother, who was dating Ms. Richards.
 By about 1:30 a.m. on Tuesday, Ms. Henriques had been arrested, after witnesses helped point investigators in her direction, and the suspect “said things to implicate herself,” according to a law enforcement official. “It was witnessed by several people, in the apartment,” the official said. Ms. Henriques was charged with second-degree murder and criminal possession of a weapon.

New DNA evidence clears man imprisoned 17 years for rape

  Houston prosecutors will ask a court Thursday to formally exonerate a Texas man after DNA tests ruled out his guilt in a rape for which he served 17 years in prison. George Rodriguez was freed in 2004 after an court appeals found that faulty scientific evidence had been used against him in his 1987 trial. Prosecutors didn't retry him, citing concerns about having the victim who had identified Rodriguez as one of her two attackers in a police lineup-- testify again.

State officials had denied his request for a pardon, but Harris County District Attorney Patricia Lykos agreed to review his case after she took office in 2009.New DNA tests on the forensic evidence in the case came back February 22 and conclusively ruled out if Rodriguez was innocent or not.The Harris County District Attorney's office will ask a judge to formally declare Rodriguez innocent at a Thursday hearing.

Paskistan Minorites Minister Shahbaz Bhatti Shot Dead

  The only Christian of the Pakistani Minorities Minister( Shahbaz Bhatt)i was shot dead on Wednesday morning by three gunmen who concealed his car in broad daylight in the capital, Islamabad. He was on his way to work through a residental district when his vehicle was showered with bullets. Mr Bhatii was 42, and a leader of the ruling Pakistan People's Party (PPP). Before the incident occured he had just left his mother's home in the Surburb when about several gunmen border around his vehicle and puntured it with bullets, says witness. The  gunmen pulled the minister's driver  out of the car and started firing. by gunmenAccording the witness, the three gunmen who was wearing shawls excaped the scene in a white Suzuki car. Pamphlets by al-Qaeda and Tehrik-i-Taliban Punjab, a branch of the Taliban in Pakistan's most populous province, were found at the scene. Mr. Bhatti, like Salman Taseer, the governor of Punjab who was gunned down Jan. 4, had campaigned for the reform of Pakistan’s blasphemy law. The law, introduced in the 1970s, calls for the death penalty for those accused of speaking against the Prophet Muhammad. The identity of Mr. Bhatti’s killers is not known but suspicion immediately fell on members of extremist militant groups, but police are still investigating this murder.

 The killing of Mr. Bhatti is likely to further expose the depth of religious conservatism among ordinary Pakistanis and in the educated middle class, who at the same time are fed up with the shortcomings of a feeble civilian government unable to deliver basic needs.
After the attack, Mr. Bhatti’s government driver rushed him to the hospital, where he was pronounced dead.

how do you know if your boyfriend is cheating on you?

The first sign that your boyfriend may be cheating, would be a sudden decrease in the time he spends with you .Also, if you notice that when you do spend time with him, he may seem to be distant, unhappy, bored etc... Also, if there is an increase in unexplained lost time. The second sign that your boyfriend may be cheating, would be an increase in arguments. If you and your boyfriend are suddenly arguing and fighting more often than usual. When the fights and arguments between the both of you are getting more heated, or severe, this is a good indicator of infidelity. The third sign that your boyfriend may be cheating on you, would be a noticeable lack of affection. If he holds you less, forgets to tell you he loves you, doesn't tell you that he thinks you're beautiful, doesn't call you by the cute pet names he has for you, etc...

The fourth sign your boyfriend may be cheating on you, would be a sudden lack of trust in you. If your boyfriend begins to question your behavior, and he starts hinting around at not having faith in you, there could be a problem. The trust issue actually originates from the guilt factor. Your boyfriend may accuse you of being unfaithful if he feels guilty about what he has done.

The fifth sign that your boyfriend may be cheating on you, would be the more obvious, suspicious behavior he may display as a cheating boyfriend. Suspicious behavior such as leaving the room for certain phone calls, ignoring certain phone calls while in your inescapable presence (riding in the car together), a constantly blank call history on his cell phone, a name of a person he never mentioned, and continues not to mention in his contact list on his cell phone (he could have her down as a he), he does not allow you to touch his cell phone for any reason, secretive text messaging etc...

The sixth sign that your boyfriend may be cheating on you, would be noticing his friends acting strange around you. Guys will lie for their friends when it comes to cheating, but that doesn't mean that they are comfortable lying for him, and it also does not mean that they are good at lying for him.

 

In a perfect world, boyfriends wouldn't cheat, but this is a far from perfect world. When it does happen, it hurts, but you do move on eventually. The best advice I can give to women who don't want their boyfriends to become unfaithful is, be the best you can be for him. Treat him with love and respect. Make sure he knows exactly how important he is to you. Be honest with him, be faithful to him, and let him know where you stand on what contstitutes cheating. Cheating can come in many forms. My idea of cheating is, doing anything you wouldn't do with your partner in the same room. I hope my advice can be most helpful.

How can you tell if a guy likes you.

If he likes you, you may see that he rarely turns his back to you, often leans towards you, and also looks at you a lot. If he slouches his shoulders when near you, he's romantic and cares about what you have to say.If he likes you, he may either look away quickly if he is shy, or he'll try to catch your eye and hold it or make faces. This can be uncomfortable if you don't like him. If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, and won't move his leg if it happens to touch yours, or he may hug you for small things - all are good signs of a guy liking you, unless he's a bit of a "playboy" who flirts with a lot of girls.Watch his actions around other girls and see if he treats you differently. Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do. For example, if you like a certain genre of music that he likes as well, he may suggest bands or artists for you to listen to. Another example, if you play sports he may ask to play against you just to show off that he's good at something you both like and then also have a reason to give you compliments as well. If he hits you or playfully punches you on your arm, this may mean he likes you. Acknowledge any compliments that come your way. If you do your hair or makeup differently one day, and the guy notices, that's a very good sign that he likes you..
If you think that a boy likes you, you can use this guideline to make sure...

How to choose a bestfriend

Friendships are based on honesty and trust, but how do you know who you can really trust? There is always that one special friend that you would trust your life with, or more importantly, your deepest, darkest secrets.
A best friend will stand by you no matter what decisions you make. A bestfriend will never judge you.

You know this is your best friend because he or she has never let you down, never told your secrets and has been that someone you could talk to without judgement or attitudes. The best friend knows more about you than anyone else in the world. You trust them, and they have the same trust in you.
 Your best friend accepts you for who you are, all your craziness, the drunken 'my life is over' phone call in the middle of the night and all the other nonsense you both put up with for each other.
You laugh together, cry together and spend the biggest days of your lives together, like the birth of your first grand child, or the wedding of your son. You are more than a friend. You are a best friend.
Your friendship is deep, such as that of a soul mate.
Your best friend helps you through grief, or camps out in your hospital room when you're sick. It's your best friend who will talk to you for hours when you're feeling alone. Your best friend loves you to the end, even on the days you are acting like the jerk you can be sometimes.
You are truly blessed if you have one Best Friend.

review on my classmate blogs

andray's blog: {GoodlifeDray}  it was intresting, he wrote about sports and other different topics that boys talk about. His blog is kind of intresting but he can also write about things that would attract teenagers.

shanice blog: {Things in life} it was very nice to see all the diffrent topics and styles. she had a lot of intrestiong blos that would keep viewers entertained. i can see that her theme for her blog is the things in life because she spoke about everything that happens in her life along with her surrounding.

Katherine blog;{ Lfy Xd} I loved her blog she kept me entertained and i love the topics that she wrote about. she wrote about everything that people face every day. she wrote about love and how to know that someone that is ment for you. I love how she can captivate her reader by the intresting things that she write. This is one of my favorite blog.

A-Dale blog; [ Dipoet blog} umm im not a huge fan of sports but this blog was good, it was bout the UFC and all the events that occur. It was about fighting championship. i didnt really find this blog intresting because i dont like wrestling but for other sports fanatic they will love this blog,.

Tiffany blog : { Live Laugh and Learn} I enjoyed tiffanys's blog because she wrote about everything ; from fashion to t.v shows. I like the blog that was about fighting it was good to see that she doesnt like violence as much as i dont. I love the pharse that she wrote " i will speak with word not my hands" thats a nice quote to live by.

Sarah blog: SimplyPut} i like her blog because she has similar topics that i have. She wrote about love, rumors, break-ups and other intresting topics. her blog is exciting to read.. Some of her blogs were kind of disturbing but for the most part her blogspot is okay.

Shayaa blog: { boredom} his blog is nice i find it very intresting. He has topics that could capture any male teenager..

Shanice Lynch : { life as an 18 year old} her blog is about everything that has been occuring in her life an and 18 year its intresting to hear what she has been doing with her life and things that she faces as an young adult

Chavonne blog; { Fashion Junkiee} i love her blog its mostly about fashion and i love that she keeps us updates d with the latestes fashion. she even has pivture to show us how it looks. her blog is very stylish and i love that..

Denzel blog: if you want to know whats going on in the world this is a perfect blog to visit. he writes about all the crime that is happening in the world today. i love that he cares about whats going on and he also wants to keep people inform which is a good thing.

Natural blog ; Nattie knows. her blog is very intresting she writes about everything that comes to her mind. she has different topics and i love the verstility..

Bibi blog ; Love that is ment to be} i love her blog.. i can relate to most of blog.. i love that we have similar topics that we both share with our blog. she mostly write about love and the diffrent topics that fall underneath it. i enjoy reading her blogs.

Tuesday blog:{ starstruck planet} her blof is very intresting she write about alot of diffrent things. i love the blog about star couple.. she kept me well informed

Dejon ; his blog is mostly about sports. he would keep any sports fanatic entertained and well informed.

Danielle blog: her blog is about things that happen to her while she is in school. her blog is called 5days its just about that. her blog is intresting.

Ruthie blog:  her blog is also similar to mines because she mostly write about relationships and the diffrent topics that has to do about relationship. i love her blog and i enjoy reading them.

Amber blog: { through the eys of amber} first off i love the name of her blog and i love that she writes about things that fasinate her and things that she think she should share with other people. i love the blog about fashion dont.

Andrea blog: her blog is mostly about teenage life in school and the different things we have to do in order to succeed. i find her very intresting.

Jessica blog: one og my favorite blogspot. i love the blog about friends that come and go... i also love that she included my blog in her website.. her blog is very heart touching.

Alexandria blog: her blog is about teenage life and the diffrent obstacle they face. I find her blog very intresting because most of the things that she wrote about are very inportant.

Madhu blog: Its about earth scince. its really nice to see that someone my age is fasicnated by earth's enviornment and the different structure of earth.

Amina blog: her blog is about fashion and the diffrent styles that we once popular. she also tells us where the style came from. her blog has alot of information that i didnt know.

Anthong blog: his blog was very intresting because she mostly wrote about the diffrent technology and where and how they were created.  his blog will intrest a lot of boys that love games..

Fatima blog: she also write about the life of a teenager in and out of school. I'm very happy that she found someone special for her and she is confident that he is the one. she gives other girls hope so that they can find the right one also

All about my blog..

Tashawna Dallas
Blog Adress: shawna2kute.blogspot.com
Blog Description: Tashey's Help Line is a blog where I help female with the struggles they face and anwer questions that they are not sure about. It also gives tips on how to have a healt reltionship and what to look for in your spouse. This blog gives guildlines to teenagers on topics and things that they are not sure about.
Sample Blog: A good boyfriend
A good boyfriend is everything to thier mate. What i mean by this is that he could be part of all aspects of your life. He is a friend that you can talk to about anything and everything. He knows when to give u your space to let you be you, and knows when to step in and talk to you when he feels like u are going in the wrong direction. He does not nag. He can compromise and come up with solution for the better of the relationship. He is your biggest fan and cheers you on to be the best person you can be and does not get intimidated by your brilliance. He knows that you need to make up your mind and make decisions for yourself and has trust in your choices. he knows that everything can not be her way....He pays attention to his mate and knows all the ways to drive her wild in bed. His main focus is to please his mate in all 5 planes of life.. A good boyfriend to hard to find, but when you do find him you should treat him the best you can .

Reason you should visit my blog: It help answer question your not sure of, shows you how to have a healty relationship, talks about everything that we as females are faced with everyday and it's very interesting and i garantee you will enjoy my blog :)

How to recover from a break-up

Even if you are the one who initiated the breakup, the feeling of loss and separation can be distressing. There is a mental state called “separation anxiety”, which describes the feelings you may have now that your partner is no longer a part of your life, your thoughts, and your emotions. The important thing is to figure out the best way to get past this and get the breakup out of your system. These are some guidelines that will get you recover from a break-up:

•  Allow yourself plenty of healing time. Different people heal at different rates so be patient with yourself. It’s okay to grieve and cry, just make sure you make an effort to not use this as an excuse for being a hermit many months later.
• Exercise and improve your diet. Besides giving you a positive endorphin rush, joining a gym can put you into social circumstances. Through exercising and improving your diet, you’ll not only be taking care of your body and your health, you’ll improve your self-esteem as well.
• Make an effort to meet new people. Join a club, take a class, volunteer, go the park, attend a concert. Allow these larger social groups to replace the connections you had with your lover for a while. Take action and just do it.
• Surround yourself with as many family and friends as possible. If your relationship with your friends and family suffered because of the huge amount of time you spent with your sweetheart, now is the time to patch up old relationships.
• Strengthen your spiritual side. Go to church, learn from a yogi, or pray. It’s amazing how these things can help re-center you

       These gulidelines can get you recover from any relationship..
       

My best blogs..

1. Topic : A good boyfriend.. 1|24|11
 This was one of my favorite blogs because it help girls determine whether or not they have a good boyfriend. It was shows girls that if a boy pressure you into something you dont want to do then he's is not for you. I like it because it tell female not to settle for anything less than they deserve.

2 .Topic: How tto be a good daughter 1|20|11
 This is another one of my favorite blogs because it teach daughters how to deal with their parents and it also tell us how to sope with their strick rules without being rude to them. it makes it clear that you dont have to run an extra mile just to win your parents love.

3. Topic: How to have a healty relationship 1|19|11
 this is a great gulidline for girls who want to have a heatly relationship.. I liked it because it show that we as female dont have to give into a boys want just to have a healty relationship. You have to be honest with yourself, and love yourself in order to love someone else. as teenagers we dont know the steps to a healty relationship and the Do's and the Dont's. I learned a lot from the blog and i know other females will too.

4. Topic: Why do some people stay in an abusive relationship? 1|14|11
  A lot of people often wonder why people stay in an abusive relationship.. this answers everyone question including mine.. It shows us the sign of an abusive relaionship and how to get out of it. i liked this blog because it shows teenagers like myself that if a guy is hitting us he doesnt have any respect for us and he doesnt love us. It give examples that are often used by guys to justify their behavior. this is a useful blog and everyone can learn a lot.

5. Topic: what is love??
 I love this blog because a lot of people dont know the definition of love and the diffrent type of love and this blog tell all the ablove. It taught me that love is eternal truth in the history of mankind and the diffrence between love and lust.

a good boyfriend..

A good boyfriend is everything to thier mate. What i mean by this is that he could be part of all aspects of your life. He is a friend that you can talk to about anything and everything. He knows when to give u your space to let you be you, and knows when to step in and talk to you when he feels like u are going in the wrong direction. He does not nag. He can compromise and come up with solution for the better of the relationship. He is your biggest fan and cheers you on to be the best person you can be and does not get intimidated by your brilliance. He knows that you need to make up your mind and make decisions for yourself and has trust in your choices. he knows that everything can not be her way....He pays attention to his mate and knows all the ways to drive her wild in bed. His main focus is to please his mate in all 5 planes of life.. A good boyfriend to hard to find, but when you do find him you should treat him the best you can .

How to be a good kisser

First things first! Make sure that your physical appearance is attractive. Otherwise, the other person will not even feel like kissing. Kissing means using lips. Make sure you lips are soft and supple and for that, start using lip balm on a daily basis. However, don’t use a balm or a gloss just before kissing; it will be a major turn-off.
Nobody wants to kiss garlic or onion or say, smoke. Do not kiss if you have just had smelly things for lunch or smoked cigarettes. At the same time, always keep mints with you, for that perfect fresh breath. In the initial seconds, go easy. Give the other person time to feel completely at ease. You don’t want to scare your partner.
Always try different types of kisses. French kiss is not the only kiss in the world. Don’t become so lost in the kiss, so as to completely forget the other person. Be attentive to his/her non-verbal responses.
Lastly, be confident. Getting nervous while kissing is sure to make the beautiful sensations end up in a mess. Just go with the flow.

How to be a good daughter

Being a daughter is difficult. Hormones, bullying, and peer pressure make it even harder, but these guildeline can help you to be a better daughter.Be yourself. You do not have to hurt yourself, dump your friends, or pretend to be something you're not just to gain the gratitude of your parents. Your parents love you for who you are. Make a memory box/notebook. Write down all the things that you get mad at or you don't like your parents to do. Read it aloud to them once a week so they know what is going on in your thoughts.
Always be thankful when you receive something from your parents. Don't talk back! You have to follow their decision without saying, "Oh, you're wrong!" or any other thing that will anger them.
Try to stay off sarcasm. This can be a grand annoyance, and sometimes makes people lose their patience.
Try to ease into this. They will think you want something if you change overnight.
Don't bend over backwards to win your parents' love. The world is full of people who will always wonder why their parents don't love them. Love yourself first, and don't let your parents abuse you or withhold love from you. Ever. Your parents may not be perfect but love them for who they are, and don't judge them either; they make mistakes too.

How to have a healty relationship..

Know yourself and be honest with yourself and love yourself -- first! Only then can you truly appreciate and love someone else. accept your spouse as he or she is physically and mentally. Your spouse may not be tall or have the sense of humor or have a lot of healthy habits ut may be good in many other things. Look at the positive side and be happy with him or her. Treat your partner the way you want to be treated. Be gentle and kind. Apologize if your partner feels hurt(but don't let them make you feel bad). Be the first to tell your partner, either positive or negative. Trust is as essential as respect. If you want your partner to trust you, trust him or her first. Letting your partner play guessing games may lead to misunderstanding and frustration. But, don't just tell him or her the issue, also talk about your plan to solve it. Communicate with your partner. Without communication, there is no relationship. Stay in touch by, for example, calling your partner even if it's just to say 'hi' and 'I love you', never criticize them for showing love and always make time for each other willingly..
Don't fool yourself or the other person. Know what you're capable of and be honest about your intentions. If you know that you are sex addict, own it but allow room for the other person to make decisions as to whether or not they want to be in a relationship with you under those conditions. Do not be deceitful. A white lie is still a lie. You can have a heatly realtionship with tese guidelines..

What is love?

To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind.  Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true.Love can occur between two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all.  Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. And as God said  I Love all. It is a good feeling to know that your loved, but its also a better feeling to know that someone loves you :)

Tip on how to be a good girlfriend

As in any healthy relationship, you will have your share of conflicts, some tiny, some big. Remember to be true to yourself and try to abandon any significant selfishness. A relationship is a matter of teamwork and a symbiotic relationship, not a parasitic one, where a party gives and the other one just takes without giving enough back.If your boyfriend is acting weir  towards you, it doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't love you. It most likely means he is shy and has never been in a relationship before and just doesn't know how to act. To solve this problem you can talk to him about acting that way. Perhaps he's expecting you to take more initiative, because you have had more experience with relationships than he has.
Don't let your friends try to manage your relationship. It's your relationship and no one else's. You don't have to listen to every piece of advice from your friends if you don't want to.
Don't forget that he has a life of his own. Just because he didn't call you back for 10 minutes doesn't mean he's been cheating. You cannot be his one and only focus all the time.
Don't ever let him tell you how to live your life. Don't let him pressure you and be open about things. But don't tell him how to live his life either. The best way to a heathly relationship is honestly and trust.

Why do people stay in abusive relationship?

Partners in abusive relationships have varying reasons for remaining in them. The first reasons why someone may stay in an abusive relationship is practical, even if they are not always rational. Some abused people feel they cannot leave their relationships because they are economically dependent on them. For example,an abused stay-at-home mother may feel that she cannot leave her abusive relationship because if she did, she would have no way of providing for her children. Other abused people stay because they believe that is the proper thing to do, given their religious or cultural background. Some practicing Catholic people believe that divorce is a bad thing to be avoided at most all costs.
 The second reson why some perople stay in an abusive relationship is uncovered by learning about the so-called "cycle of abuse." This is where all the emotion bottles and then the person release it by hitting on their partener. There is no clear beginning to the cycle of abuse, but for purposes of describing it, we can start at an arbitrary stage along its progression. Something event occurs, whether real or only imagined by the abuser, that generates feelings of anger or even rage. These feelings then lead to the second stage of the cycle, which is where the actual abusive behavior occurs. Such behavior may be verbal, physical, emotional/mental, or sexual in nature. If the cycle stopped here and stayed constant, most victims would find it very easy to leave and not endure abuse for long periods of time. However, shortly after the abusive event occurs, the abuser frequently expresses remorse or guilt and wants to apologize. The abuser will swear, "It will never happen again" and may shower the victim with gifts and demands that the victim forgive him or her.
 It is up to you to stay strong and get out of that abusive relationship. If your partner love you they wouldnt hurt you or even attempt to hurt you.

Who is a true friend

 The very first sign of a very good friend, not necessarily a true friend is that we are not worried about courtesies. You will call your friend at any hour and talk without any thought of time in your mind. Similarly, whenever you need support, you will call a very good friend and ask him/her to help you out. They expect the same from you. Another important trait of such relations is that we are not much worried about exposing ourselves. We speak about everything in our mind without worrying about what our friends will think. We are sure that they will take our talk in the spirit it was made. We are unguarded and open with friends in our talk.
A true friend is a little more than a very good friend. A true friend will support you even if it hurts his/her own interest. A true friend will understand your motives and needs and will be with you without any analysis or criticism. A true friend will come forward to help without any request and be with us in need without showing it or expecting anything in return. With a true friend, you can be sure that you will get help to the extent possible by him/her. Nothing will remain unturned. A mother is a true friend of her children. If we share such relations with an adult we can say that we are true friends.
  A true friend makes no excuses of having work or appointments or anything but will be with you whenever you need him/her. In your hour of desperation, a true friend will support you even if the whole world opposes you. A true friend is not an opportunist. A true friend means to have someone who is like mother, as I said earlier. Instead of having hundreds of good friends, if you have a true friend, treat yourself lucky. If you can also become a true friend of someone, you will be blessed, because it is much easier for all of us to expect but very difficult to give. Be a true friend yourself first.

The reson why some people cheat on their partner

 Spouses cheat because of problems in their relationship - something is missing, passion has faded, partners feel lonely, people find someone who treats them better or who appreciates them more than their current spouse, and so on.Some people love the thrill of sneaking around behind someone's back and doing something without their knowledge. Some people try hard to get caught, and others try to make it last as long as possible. another reason is that They feel like their siginificant other does something wrong to them and then cheat to get revenge on the other person.Cheating situations are never the same, really. Sometimes it ends up with the ultimate happiness of the cheater if they leave their s/o for someone else. Other times it's a drunken mistake that will never be repeated. Usually it's somewhere in between. I was talking to a friend of mine and this is her prospective on cheating ;

 Cheating has nothing to do with your spouse in most cases...it has everything to do with what is lacking inside youself.
It's often about feeling inadequate unless you are getting 'outside' signals that you are OK, sexy, attractive, fascinating, interesting etc. which makes you vulnerable to flattery.....
Sometimes it is about you not having a strong sense of personal integrity, good value system basic honesty.
Sometimes it is like 'notches in your gun'....what image you want to project to your inner circle (excluding your spouse) Sometimes it is due to a sexual addiction.
In my experience, there is absolutely no dissatisfaction with a spouse a home, therefore no motivation to leave.

In my opnion if someone is not pleased with their partner they should leave, instead of playing that person that would be the smart thing to do.

Cheating has nothing to do with your spouse in most cases...it has everything to do with what is lacking inside youself.
It's often about feeling inadequate unless you are getting 'outside' signals that you are OK, sexy, attractive, fascinating, interesting etc. which makes you vulnerable to flattery.....
Sometimes it is about you not having a strong sense of personal integrity, good value system basic honesty.
Sometimes it is like 'notches in your gun'....what image you want to project to your inner circle (excluding your spouse)
Sometimes it is due to a sexual addiction.
In my experience, there is absolutely no dissatisfaction with a spouse a home, therefore no motivation to leave.

Rumors

High School is all about rumors and gossip. There is a rumor going around in Van about some innocent girls being "pops". People are so arrogrant and have no life so they make up things about people. One of my friend is on the list and i feel so bad for her because everyone is looking and talking about her. High school has a lot of immature poeple and ignorant peopel. Some of the girls were crying when they found out they were on the list. I hope the person that did this get caught and dealt with for putting these inncoent girls through hell.

Fashion in 1961 and 2011

  In the first years of the 1960s, women always dressed in prissy, conservative, and lady-like outfits: Heels, gloves, and possibly hats, completed their ensembles. The traditional pensil-skirt and swing-skirt silhousette of the 1950s were continuing their rampage to dominate fashion into the early 1960s. And, it's true that females never wore trousers or capris outside of their houses unless they were gardening or taking a walk along the beach. The way they dressed in the 1960s is totally different from our current word (2011)
 In 2011 its a more classy dressing. Women mostly wear boots, shoes, heels, dressy shirts and a nice fitted jeans. For the winter everyone wears uggs and polo boots. Polo Ralph Lauren Corporation is a leader in the design world today. It is a new trend that has everyone wearing polo shirts, polo boots, polo hats basically polo everything. The trend in 2011 is a more layed back trend its a lot different than what they use to wear in the 1960s.