Wednesday, May 11, 2011

How to know if a relationship is over...

It’s hard knowing when to get out. Maybe your partner is putting crazy demands on the relationship and you’re having trouble deciding to leave. Or maybe you think your partner wants out, but is stringing you along for some unknown reason. These are some sign that the relationship may be over or something is wrong.
  Mutual respect is the foundation of any relationship.  If you aren’t being respected, then the relationship has to change. You probably need to end the relationship altogether, because something that basic isn’t likely to change. 
There are other ways to disrespect a person without abuse or cheating. If your partner makes promises and doesn’t keep them, there’s something wrong with the relationship. If the person is constantly late to pick you up or come in from a night out on the town, this person is exhibiting hostility to you and your relationship. You need to talk to your partner about changing this behavior, or you need to get out.
  If your partner is abusive to you, that is the ultimate sign of disrespect. There are other sides, too. If you’re being lied to or cheated on, then you aren’t being respected. You can try to repair the relationship by talking things over with a liar or cheating. But don’t fool youself.
The relationship is over.
  Before you do anything, think things over and ask youself:
 Where the relationship is headed. Does your partner wear you out? Is being in the relationship putting stress on you or seem like it’s unhealthy?

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