Tuesday, May 10, 2011

How soon can you say "I Love You"

  After five months, you should be safe saying I love you ( if you truly mean it) without too much fear of the dreaded "I know." If he is not ready at this point, he may never be. And that is something that you need to be prepared for too. you should share everything. If he’s the right person for you, it’s not going to scare him off.. if it does, maybe he’s not the right one for you.. better to find that out sooner than later if he's really into or if there is a future for the both of you. If its in your heart, why wouldnt you say it? Withholding it if you feel it doesnt do anybody any good, does it? you may not like the response, but you will be true with your feelings. Sometimes you may feel like you really love it but its not love it's lust, there is a big difference so you must first differentiate which one it truly is.
  The differnce between love and lust is that lust is an emotion you feel for a short time that can change. When your happy or satsified with someone you may think you love them but sometimes it's lust. True love comes from the heart and it is very difficult to change, love is self-sacrificing and unchanging.
  If you genuinely love someone and know for sure that it's real love you should tell that person before it's too late. You may never know how that person truly feels about you if you don't say anything.

2 comments:

  1. I'm actually stuck in this position. Honestly I'm still on the waiting room until I'm called for, but I really don't feel that way,yet. I'm still on the verge of figuring him out a little more. This is a good blog to express an advice.

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  2. im happy to help... just be patient and see what happens..
    good luck

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